- 1831
December 25 - Born in Norwich, Connecticut. The first of 2 children born to Hiram and Nancy Elizabeth (nee Carew) Crosby.
- 1854
Graduates from Dartmouth College.
- 1856
Admitted to the Bar.
- 1859
September - Marries Mary Zilpha Scott.
- 1860
July 11 - Son Charles born in Norwich, Connecticut.
- 1862
Enlistes in the 18th Connecticut and is transferred to the 21st Connecticut.
- 1864
September 16 - Discharged from Union Army, returns to Norwich and resumes his legal career.
- 1866
Moves to New York City.
- ~1866
Marries(?) Margaret Anna Ackerman.
- 1872
July 24 - Son Hiram born.
- 1872
Sept & Oct travels to Michigan's Upper Peninsula as part of a prospecting party to analyzed the potential for iron mines.
- 1873
July 4 - Daughter Margaret born.
- 1874
Sister Elizabeth Ann (Crosby) Lucas dies aged 40.
- 1875
October 9 - Son William born.
- 1878
February 6 - Son John born.
- 1879
August 4 - Daugher Helen born.
September 7 - Father dies aged 73.
- 1880
November 26 - Son Thomas Gresham born.
- 1883
January 12 - Daughter Constance born.
- 1885
February 22 - Son Alpheus Dixi born.
- 1888
May 30 - Daughter Gertrude born.
- 1890
April 11 - Mother dies aged 79.
- 1891
April 6 - Daughter Elizabeth born.
- 1896
January - First wife, Mary, sues for divorce.
- 1900
October 7 - Dies in New York City, aged 68 years.